In many previous videos, I’ve covered various techniques and tactics for picking up hot girls, but today, I want to focus on the mentality, the inner game, and the thought process that should guide you when flirting with those perfect 10s that often leave men feeling intimidated and tongue-tied.
It’s time to conquer your fears and learn how to not only approach them, but also maintain your confidence, offer value, flirt, and take calculated risks.
You see, the problem with inner game issues is that they can’t be solved with a one-size-fits-all solution.
So, let’s explore some diverse philosophies that can help you navigate these challenging encounters.
Firstly, remember that you are a valuable proposition.
Your goal is not to get the girl, but to be of such an incredible value that she’d be foolish to say no.
Next, embrace the idea that no girl will fundamentally change your success with women.
If you’ve built up your value proposition, it’s only a matter of time until you’re in a place of abundance, regardless if you get rejected by the next 10 you approach.
If you don’t have an insanely high value proposition right now, that’s okay, because you can borrow abundance from your future.
That means deeply believing that you are on a path to success and knowing that is just as valuable as having already reached that destination.
If you are truly doing what you should be in life–working on your game, hitting the gym, solidifying your financial position, etc, then borrow abundance from your future and act as if you have already achieved those things.
Furthermore, understand that value isn’t always the most crucial factor.
Focus on creating a memorable experience because game really is about the journey and connection between you and the girl rather than your bank account or looks.
In dating, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach.
So, embrace these philosophies, be your authentic self, and enjoy the journey.
When you master your inner game, talking to those intimidating 10s becomes just another exciting adventure in your dating life.
-Todd V
