The Easiest Way to Get Laid

by | Dec 26, 2018 | General, Strategy & Philosophy

“Hey Todd, I’ve hit a dry spell, what’s the easiest way to get laid?”

Can’t help but chuckle. You asked so I’ll answer.

But before we dive in, I know that you’re probably looking for a quick one-off tip or trick. I get it.

So I’ll do this…I’ll give you the easiest way to get laid that works for me.

But I’ll also give you the slightly longer truth that actually applies to you.

Ready? Let’s begin.

The Single Easiest Way to Get Laid…For Me

The first thing that comes to mind when it comes to easy ways to get laid is ONLINE DATING.

If by EASIEST, you mean the one that requires you to literally not even leave your house. Not face the risk of in-person rejection. Not even spend the effort of getting dressed up. Online dating is your friend.

Right now, this very second, there are probably hundreds if not thousands of women on Tinder swiping away with the express purpose of hooking up.

Even girls want easy ways to get laid. Going to a bar and getting hit on by 20-30 creepy men before possibly finding the one that they like is not easy for women. Which is why women turn to online dating. An anonymous approach with little social consequences.

And yes, if you haven’t learned yet, women sometimes want and seek out sex for the sake of sex as much as men do.

Now here’s the caveat…I can’t exactly guarantee you top-notch quality with this approach. But it is easy.

And can be a lot easier and more successful if you spend time optimizing your profile. Getting high-quality photos. Writing an insane bio. Not to mention getting good at text game.

Also, assuming you have a Tinder profile that’s getting matches already, spend some money on Tinder Boosts and start accumulating and texting leads.

Now let’s get back to the original question: What’s the easiest way to get laid?

When I actually think about it, the real answer is it depends.

Specifically, it depends on you.

What Are Your Super-Powers?

Online dating works like gangbusters for me because I’m a guy who’s pretty good at writing, and once you’ve reached a certain threshold of quality in online dating, the girls come in waves.

It’s like passive income! The profile just continues to match you with girls with no effort whatsoever.

Heck, it works while I’m sleeping.

So once you’ve done the work up front, you’ll have cascades of women fall into your lap afterward. That’s at least if you’re at a high enough level with your writing and your ability to convey yourself as a high-value, attractive guy.

However, as I said it dependsMost guys who go online get absolutely no results and get matched with women that they would never want to take out in a million years.

So in that case, is online dating really that easy?

The Easiest Way to Get Laid – Focus On Your Strengths

You can either be average to good at a few things, in which the results will be negligible.

Or you could absolutely crush it in one area, and get absolutely outstanding results.

The easiest way to get laid is to focus on your strengths. For example, if you’re really good at being social and meeting girls through that format, then social circle might be the easiest way for you to get laid.

For me starting out in the year 2000, doing cold approach was the easiest way for me to get laid, because online dating didn’t really exist at the time.

I also didn’t particularly want to pursue all the pitfalls that come with college social circle game. Ie. Risking your reputation after making a mis-step.

When I started out, meeting women through cold approach was great because if I screwed up my interactions, then it allowed me to go in the next day with a completely clean slate and have those mistakes learned from and erased.

That said, if you’re already killing it with social circles, then by all means that might be the easiest way for you.

The Easiest Way to Get Laid – An Economic Stance

From an economic perspective, it wouldn’t make sense for one form of meeting women to work more than the others.

For example, if online dating worked so much more easily than all the other platforms, then everybody would go online and it no longer would be easy.

This is actually kind of true with online dating right now…at least for the average guy that doesn’t know what he’s doing.

If approaching women during the daytime was way easier than every other approach, then more people would be doing cold-approach day game and the threshold for standing out and being attractive in day game would increase, therefore it would be harder.

Thankfully this is emotionally very hard for most guys, and the competition is pretty much non-existent.

The overall point is this: However you’re meeting girls, it’s already a competitive environment.

Whatever terrain you’re meeting girls on, online, in the club, in social circles, at Starbucks, you’re competing with other guys.

So ask yourself, what platform are you best at? What’s easiest for you?

Then triple down on that. Learn it, hone your skills and you should get great results.

A further bit of advice would be to try all formats out – online dating, day game, night game, social circle – because you’ll learn different skillsets from each that will carry over into other formats.

For example, writing a profile on online dating will help you with storytelling and conveying your personality. Day game will help you with building comfort and low energy game etc.

Fundamentally in an efficient dating market, the easiest thing that’s going to get you laid is by doing what comes most naturally to you.

So whatever suits your temperament, your style and your geographical/logistical situation etc.

– Todd

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