LIVE DEBRIEF AND Q+A — 06/11/23
(00:58) How do you speed up the process of warming up a girl when you can see that she is gradually opening up?
(03:03) Todd, is there a way to get an offline copy of your old courses like Winnergame and the system etc?
(04:00) I prefer approaching girls by themselves during DG, is that too bad? I feel I’m missing some parts of learning game.
(05:50) Approached a girl earlier, messed up by closing too early. Didn’t care. But there’s another hot girl sitting very close to her. I didn’t approach the second one. Felt the pressure from the previous girl. How would you handle this?
(13:09) What are the differences between your new Online Dating Academy course and the old Online Dating Bootcamp course?
(14:38) What to do if a girl says wanna chat longer before coming out in online dating?
(21:57) How to open up to a girl who seems like she’s in a hurry without looking needy?
(22:51) I’ve made one sitting approach on very cute girl reading book today. She was neutral the entire interaction. Didn’t buy any of my frame injection (premise as in she’s going to try to kiss me, chase me etc..), laughed at them but no follow up, didn’t even ask one single question about me, didn’t invest when I asked but kept talking. I thought it’s not going to go anywhere, so I got her number, hugged, and walked her to her car. She hasn’t replied to my message yet. Is there any hope with such flat interactions: should I instigate more and burn it to the ground, or keep cool in text, and spend more time with her?
(32:28) Daygame beginner question: Sometimes in grocery stores or at pedestrian stop lights, I would like to open immediately, however I sometimes miss doing so due to AA or just being busy looking at my phone/texting. Is it good to open direct or indirect after? I tried “You look like a Hollywood actress but I don’t know the name”. It works but I just wanna get your advice if this is a good opener in this situation?
(35:50) Any best practices on how to construct a good social media/Instagram profile?
(43:59) I’ll be going back to school in September, as an older student in his 30’s. For that reason I feel like I will stand out on campus. Do you have any advice when it comes to talking to mostly younger girls in this setting?
(46:35) I matched with a very high caliber girl on hinge by sending a rose along with a comment response to one of her profile prompts. It was good enough that it triggered the match, however my second message to her response didn’t go so well as you can see on the screenshot thread that I attached. What could I have done instead to keep the convo going and ultimately close?
(50:19) Most of my success in daygame and night game came from girls in “complicated relationships” or cheating, but mostly it didn’t end in relationships. Should I start doing more online and social circle or improve at day and night?
(52:24) One of the things you mentioned with the date with the model is that she was flaky. How do you balance being patient with being a pushover and putting up with flaky behavior because she’s hot which would be low value?
(44:23) Have you ever had a girl not want to see you again because she didn’t think you looked like your pictures?
(01:02:00) Is “looking for a career change” a high-value enough narrative? Or how can I make it so?
(01:22:19) How can you stop being nice to nice females?
(01:23:45) When do you transition from being more casual and fun to be a bit more serious from a relationship standpoint? I feel like I keep the fun casual frame too long and then girls think I don’t want anything serious.
(01:47:37) follow up: sometimes girls say obviously full of shit things like “I’m lesbian” or “I never go to parties”. How to call them out fast to not have that frame sink in the interaction